Sunday, May 30, 2010

soapy savings.


What ingredients do you need?
1/3 bar of Fels Naptha
1/2 cup Borax
1/2 cup Washing Soda
1 bucket

But how do you make the detergent?
Put 6 cups of water in a saucepan over medium heat. Cut the bar of Fels Naptha into thirds. Grate 1/3 of the bar and add it to the saucepan. Heat the mixture until the Fels Naptha melts completely. Once it is dissolved, remove the pan from the heat. Heat 4 cups of water in the microwave (or you can heat on the stove but it takes longer) then add it to the empty bucket. Add your melted Fels Naptha mixture to the bucket and stir. Mix in an additional 24 cups (1 gallon, 6 cups) of water and stir completely. Let it sit in the bucket for 24 hours or until it becomes a gel. Once it becomes a gel, add the mixture to the container of your choice. Use approximately 1/2 cup per load.

NOTE:
The finished soap will not be a solid gel. It will be a watery gel and will have the consistency of egg noodle soup. The soap is low-sudsing. The ingredients do the cleaning, not the suds.

But what does the soap smell like?
It smells clean and fresh with a very light scent. Personally, I have continued to use my fabric softener, as it adds more of the fragrance I like. If you'd like to add fragrance to the laundry soap, you can add 1/2 to 1 ounce of essential oil or fragrance oil to the entire batch. *I have not done this, so let me know what you think if you try it.

But how much does one batch make?
Once batch fills one 150 fluid ounce tide bottle (the one with the pour spout) and leaves about 80 oz. soap to spare. I usually just put the spare amount into a tupperware container with a lid. Once I use enough in my pour-spout Tide bottle, I'll transfer the extra from the tupperware into the Tide bottle. *As mentioned above, for storage, I saved an old Tide bottle I was going to recyle and it works great. The spout on the front really makes pouring and measuring the soap very easy.

But why go through all that trouble?
It may seem like a lot of work, but it's honestly about 15 minutes from start to finish. I was overwhelmed the first time I tried the recipe, but it's very simple. It's not much trouble and it saves you a lot of money. An extra advantage is knowing exactly what is going into your laundry soap and onto your clothes.

But is it really less expensive?
Here is the breakdown of my calculations:
1 bar Fels Naptha = $1.23
Since you only use 1/3 of bar per batch, 1.23 divided by 3 = $.41 per batch
76 oz. box Borax = $3.19
$3.19 divided by 76 oz. = $.04 per oz
Since you only use 1/2 cup (3.5 oz) in each batch, 3.5 x .04 = $.14 per batch
55 oz. box Washing Soda = $2.29
$2.29 divided by 55 oz. = $.04 per oz
Since you only use 1/2 cup (4.2 oz) in each batch, 4.2 x .04 = $.17 per batch

TOTAL:
$.41
(Fels Naptha) + $.14 (Borax) + $.17 (Washing Soda) = $.72 for 230 oz. Laundry Soap

Each load of laundry uses 1/2 cup of soap (4 oz). Therefore, a 230 oz. batch makes 57.5 loads of laundry. If you break that down to cost, a $.72 batch divided by 57.5 loads = .0125 rounded to a grand total of $.01 per load of laundry. That, my friends, is definitely worth the effort.

Friday, May 28, 2010

time warp

a table for ten at a swanky sushi restaurant in bridgeport, instead of the usual shari's run at 2am. our party flowed in one by one through the restaurant, taking their seats. slowly our numbers began to grow to fill the table from one end to the other. some new faces, mostly familiar ones. the meal was unremarkable, but the company took me back in time. what used to be talk about exams and art projects and our futures morphed into talks about real careers and houses and babies - we finally were in the future. honestly, i remember thinking that we all look so much healthier. it must be the amount of sleep we get now vs. the number of all-nighters that used to alter our lives. in my seat i felt stuck in an awkward gap between the present day and wanting my college life back. wishing things had never changed. some had reason to believe that life had only gotten better after leaving the black-and-orange; others weren't sure what to believe. for the others, life has been stalled. i think everybody felt a jolt of reality when pushed back towards their own cars. we've only known each other in one capacity for so long - as students. now, we have to learn to know each other as adults. ultimately, we need to learn to know and see ourselves as adults first.

Thursday, May 27, 2010

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

is it a sign?

kevin has an interview this thursday for a job at my work. it's a warehouse job, but it's steady work and decent pay. he'd actually be making the same amount as me. it's not very much, but the benefits are the silver lining. is it a sign? [plus, if we both work there, my understanding is that one of us gets to take home the extra compensation in place of the benefits (we don't need double coverage)]

i ask if it's a sign because, not only does he have an interview this week...but this week, the townhouse we've been dreaming about just dropped $10,000 to $159,900! if kevin can get this job, we are one step closer to owning a home. although it's not a "house" it is one step closer. it'd be the perfect starter home for our little family. here are the details i know you're all dying to know:

2 story townhome
3 Beds
2.5 Baths
1300 SF
Attached 1-car garage
1 extra assigned space
Recently Remodeled
Granite counters throughout
Hardwoods on main floor
New appliances/fixturs
New carpet on upper level/stairs
Laundry room w/ WD
*Greatroom layout: kitchen opens to family room with wood-burning fireplace
*Glass slider to private, fenced patio w/ grass!

although our down payment would be very minimal, it would be worth it in the end. it's my understanding that they don't have too many bites on this home. they flyer box is always full and they keep dropping the price. i wonder how much they'd be willing to take on the house? it's not like we'd have to offer full price. my dad said he'll get his realtor friend to get us in to view the house. i think it'll be smart to wait until we hear what happens with kevin's interview before viewing the house. i don't want to get my hopes up for nothing. all i can think is what a great opportunity this would be for us. hopefully we can get all our ducks in a row.

Monday, May 24, 2010

i wanna be a grown-up.

i want a grown-up house with grown-up furniture. i want a grown-up car (without the grown-up payments). i want a grown-up kitchen with a grown-up pantry that actually houses grown-up food. i want a grown-up laundry room with room to hang my grown-up clothes for my grown-up job. i want to be able to look in my grown-up savings account without a $0 balance...but i don't have the grown-up funds to pull it off. i want a grown-up family that does grown-up things. i want to be a grown-up...i'm just saying.

Friday, May 21, 2010

66 years

Last night, Kevin and I engaged in our typical Champagne Thursday night routine (minus the Champagne because I had a headache) - this includes making dinner, watching The Office, getting an ice cream at Cold Stone Creamery, then returning just in time to watch The Marriage Ref. There was an adorable elderly couple on the show that had been married for 66 years. SIXTY SIX YEARS!!! I instantly fell in love with them - they just looked like they were still so in love and so happy with each other. It got me to thinking...if Kevin and I are blessed to be married that long (that's the plan), we'd each be 90 years old on our 66th wedding anniversary. July 31, 2010 marks our first anniversary as a married couple, so our 66th seems so far away. I am just so happy to think that I found someone I'd actually want to spend 66 years of my life with! Honestly, it doesn't seem like enough considering we've already been together for 7 years come December. In my heart, I have so much more to share with him than 66 years can contain. I can't imagine my life without him - our time together has already seemed to have flown by, seems like I've known him my entire life. We are the best fit and, although times are tough right now, I know things will get better. We will get the life we always dreamed of - it just may take a little bit longer than we expected. Unexpected bumps in the road only lead to more fun ride, right?

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

writers block.

i have been putting off posting because i have writers block. everything that i would normally blog about is a "what if?" hypothetical state right now. kevin and i spend our time talking about our dreams and what we really want out of life. if anything good has come out of this awful recession, it's that it forced us to prioritize what we both really want for ourselves and for our marriage. at one time, we wanted to have alone time and travel before settling down with little punks...but now we realize, there won't be any perfect time to have children. you just have to make an educated decision and jump in head first. right now, we're enjoying dipping our toes in...

kevin spends his evenings searching for cars on the internet. let me clarify...he's searching for baby-safe cars/suvs/cross-overs. he carefully considers the size of the backseat (to make sure it can comfortably fit a carseat or two). other considerations include the ability to easily put a kid in/out of the car and the safety readings, price range, etc. i think it's cute that he takes it so seriously. my little researcher!

on the other side, i spend my night in the bathtub reading my pre-pregnancy books. when i get my fill of reading, i spend time searching baby-related things on the internet. birth stories and videos fascinate me. i consider baby name combinations. dream of nursery colors/patterns/themes, etc. we discuss our plans to raise our kids, what we want/don't want, discipline options, etc. i think we'll be more on the stricter side, but i dont't think that's a bad thing. kids need structure and need to know their parents mean business. anyway, i digress...as you can tell, both of our clocks are ticking. at full speed. is that normal?

right now, we are in that awkward in-between stage. stuck between a rock (what we have to do) and a hard place (what we want but can't acquire). i must admit, it's getting old. kevin just needs to get a job. please, universe, give him a chance. he's brilliant and fabulous - you'll see! once we jump that job hurdle, it'll be all babies in the works. you mark my words :)

Monday, May 10, 2010

my mother’s day gift.

kevin and i took our mother’s to brunch on mother’s day. it was so much fun to just be with our moms and not have any distractions. it was a definite bonus that brunch included mimosas, too! :) while we were exchanging gifts, kevin’s mom hands me one. i just blurted out (without thinking) “i’m not a mom!” – she got me a gift anyway. two books on pre-pregnancy.

get ready to get pregnant  expect the best

Get Ready to Get Pregnant by Michael C. Lu MD & MPH (director of UCLA preconception care clinic) and Expect the Best: Your Guide to Healthy Eating Before, During and After Pregnancy by Elizabeth M Ward, MS & RD. I am SO EXCITED! Not only do I love to read, but since we have had so much talk about starting a family lately, this is just one of the first steps. I am one of those people that likes to know what I’m getting myself into (or as much as you can prepare for baby) before it happens. I have 2 chapters left in the current book I am reading, then I’m going to start reading these books. I’ve cracked them open once or twice already and like what I’ve learned so far. I’m sure I’ll bring some of the things I learn into my blogging. Hopefully next year, I’ll be able to officially celebrate Mother’s Day (in the womb or otherwise). Who knows? :)